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The Twin Flames of Materialism and Nesting: What’s a Girl to Do?

I saw an article about smaller homes in the Washington Post that caught my eye. Because of what I do for a living, I think a lot about homes, material goods, family life and the cost of things. The headline is “Why smaller houses can lead to happier lives and it verifies what I’ve observed through the years to be true. “…the question ‘Are you happy with your home?’ yields a very different answer than ‘Are you happy with your life?'”

I think on some level, most of us know this. Our current culture of getting things instantly, easily and cheaply isn’t going to fill the void and it seems we’re all starting to understand that there’s more to it than that. I love an interesting, well-loved home and my favorites through the years haven’t been super large or impressive but they have had a strong sense of the people or family that live there and a sense of home.

On that anti-consumerism note which really does my career no good, here are some rooms I’ve been loving recently. I recognize I’m part of the problem but I do like “stuff” like art, books, rugs and pets.

Sweet baby in the office (Photo Source)
Love the handmade, casual look to this home in Australia. (Photo Source)
I’m working on a project with a lot of bookshelves – love seeing them in homes! (Photo Source)
Check out this stair runner! (Photo Source)
Perfect. Love the classic Vitsoe shelving, the chairs, the cool table and rug. Looks like a great place to while away the time. (Photo Source)
Light and airy – love the pattern mix and yellow throw. (Photo Source)
Meg Ryan’s cozy apartment and writing desk in You’ve Got Mail is one of my favorites… (Photo Source)

If you’re looking for some transendence, I recently read two fantastic literary fiction books – The Loneliness of Sonia and Sunny by Kiran Desai and the unusual Angel Down by Daniel Krauss

“They had longed for the place even when they were in the place; they had longed for the moment as they lived it; they had longed for themselves. They had been right to feel this way. It could not last.”
― Kiran Desai, The Loneliness of Sonia and Sunny

2 thoughts on “The Twin Flames of Materialism and Nesting: What’s a Girl to Do?”

  1. I love this post. Every picture feels so lived in, personal and homey. It feels especially applicable to me as I begin a large kitchen remodel in my home. I’m really working to keep it personal to me and not just the latest trend. It can be difficult in our info-overloaded world.

    Thank you for this perspective.

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