Careful, small decisions made incrementally within a project add up and will get you where you need to be. Pace yourself! There’s no need to decide everything in one day. This seems like it might apply in some form to life, but my brain doesn’t feel like any deep thoughts at the moment.
I’m a big believer in spacing things out so clients don’t hit decision fatigue. I also love to build and layer design choices on top of the original decisions. I like deisgn to look and feel fluid and I’m a huge chaser of serendipity. You can’t get serendipity if you’re too rigid with your approach. As a minor control freak, I have to use self-talk a lot to achieve this. I like to plan things in advance; I like to know what I’m up against and I really don’t like surprises which makes me just a ball of fun. Working in older homes is a fine balance of planning and then being flexible enough to pivot when something unexpected happens.


I’ve been fighting the “grown and flown” blues recently. Not sure if that’s a thing, but it should be. Parents of college age kids might identify. I looked up some tips and the number one tip is “Get a Hobby.” I can’t even tell you how annoying that was to me. You think? My life is a series of hobbies and some might even consider my job something of a hobby. How many more hobbies do I need? And I’m not doing pickleball or Mah Jongg before you write in. I’m not cool enough for either.


Books I’ve loved recently:
The Foursome by Christina Baker Kline. The famous conjoined twins, Chang and Eng, married two sisters in 1840’s North Carolina and had twenty one children between them. Based on a true story, this one sounds weird, but it has so much heart. Very moving, incredibly well done historic fiction. We got to speak to Christina about this book on our podcast and that interview will be out soon. Recommended for fans of Kristin Hannah.
This Story Might Save Your Life by Tiffany Crum. This is a mystery/thriller and the romance at the center of this was so real and wonderful and moving. I couldn’t put it down. Fantastic debut novel. Disclosure, I had trouble at the beginning with the characters introduced all at once but it’s smooth sailing after that.
Listening to:
My girl crush Kacey Musgraves new album Middle of Nowhere mixed in with The Great Divide (still listening, week 2, and the song Dashboard keeps catching my ear.)